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From Match to Meetup: Making a Great First Impression

Posted on August 26, 2024 by The Soulcial Team

From Match to Meetup: Making a Great First Impression - Soulcial Blog

On Soulcial, you skip the endless texting and go straight to the date. This makes the first in-person conversation even more important. Here’s how to make a great first impression and build a meaningful connection from the start.

1. Re-read Their Profile Beforehand

Before you meet, take a moment to review your match's profile. Refresh your memory on their interests, job, and anything that stood out to you. This will give you some great starting points for conversation and shows you're genuinely interested.

2. Prepare Some Open-Ended Questions

While you don't want to script the date, having a few thoughtful, open-ended questions in your back pocket can prevent awkward silences. Think beyond 'What do you do?'. Try something like, 'What's a project you're passionate about right now?' or 'What's something you've learned recently that surprised you?'

3. Focus on Being Present

As a busy professional, it can be hard to switch off from work. Make a conscious effort to put your phone away and give your date your full attention. Active listening is one of the most attractive qualities and is key to forming a quality connection.

4. Let Soulcial Take the Pressure Off

The beauty of Soulcial is that the initial logistics are handled. You're meeting in a safe, curated spot, so you can relax and focus on the person in front of you. Embrace the opportunity to have a real conversation without the weeks of pre-date texting. This is what finding real, meaningful connections is all about.